Cortney Gee
( aka THE LOVE DOCTOR )
The Sequel

Now of course I'm no body's psychiatrist but that doesn't stop my female friends from asking me things that make me pause ... then keep it real.
Case in point I have a girlfriend that lives with her dude whom pays all the bills takes care of their children and the two from her previous relationship and is by all other accounts a real cool dude. What she is complaining about is his messing around.
I paused as I always do before dropping a Geeism....

I was like look here ____ "we protect the innocent and the guilty on this blog!!!"
I'm not condoning your dude messing around but if he is paying all the bills and taking care of a kid that the two of you share and two that aren't biologically his .. damn can't the brother be excused for messing around a tad bit.
I didn't even know that they still made men that took care of all the bills no more.

I told her she had a good one based on that fact alone. Many men will pay half of or none of the bills and still sleep around on you . I had to remind my friend she wasn't Ivana Trump or Juanita Jordan and her departure wouldn't be a lottery ticket.

I told her to forgive him and torture him for his indiscretion's , sometimes there is more to gain by staying than leaving .
"STILL WATERS RUN DEEP"

Of course I don't expect my option to be agreed with on this one .. to be honest I don't write this to be agreed with. I write these lil pieces to get it out of my head ... so that i don't end up on a couch!

SOMETIMES YOU GOT TO BURY THE MEMORY

I've went through quite a few relationships over the years. So many that one of my best friends Lolita Files refuses to even read email or view pictures concerning them till they've made it passed my infamous two week crash and burn period. We came up with a lil spot I bury the old and promise the new lings if things don't work out ...


THE EX GIRLFRIEND GRAVEYARD!!!!

Of course I'm no angel so I don't want to give off the impression that it's never my fault . Many a relationship has been ruined on my part because of me just being me. I don't know what that means but I'm sure many of the bloggers that know me or have had a relationship will be more than willing to expound .

Once someone makes it to their final resting place in my life I normally don't call them nor expect to see their number appear on my phone. Of course you have those that just refused to die and haunt me from beyond the grave.

When are they going to march on DC ?


Every group that feels like they have been dumped on have marched on Washington. Vocalizing their dislike for inhuman treatment due to race, religion, sex, sexual preference and the list goes on... Who would be the champion of this groups cause... who could best address the crowd of a million cavemen ?

The World Needs Heroes...
When I was growing up and had passed the phase of thinking Batman and the rest of the Super Friends was cool ( ok so I've revisited that period since Hollywood has made a mad effort to bringing them to the big screen) I looked toward the ABA/NBA for the people I would idolize and try to emulate.

Yeah the J5 were the reason for me to grow a fro' but it was Dr. J that made me want the big blow out!!! I was so into the graceful forward from the U of Mass that my bedroom wall was a tribute to him and his aerial attacks on the hoop. This was the time in my life when my taste in shoes had changed as well. No longer was I satisfied with canvas Chuck Taylor's I wanted the pro leather ones worn by my heroes... Julius Erving and The Iceman" George Gervin"

I'll never forget the answer my mother gave me when I was begging for some $30 shoes. She was like Dr. J and The Iceman have jobs you show me you can score 30 points in some canvas shoes and maybe I'll think about it. She didn't have to say anything else ... she fueled my gunners spirit and on my next game I launched shots from every spot on the court. I didn't score thirty points but I did show her I was more than some kid trying to just be like a hero of mine but had the potential to be quite the hero myself. After the game we made our way to Value City and she found me some irregular doc's for half price . One of my feet didn't fit comfortably but that didn't keep me from sporty them bad boys the rest of the season.

My sons are at the age were they want shoes that their heroes wear. Miles wanted some D Wade's ... I went online to purchase them and was astounded to find that they were 100.00
. Took a page from my mom's book of wisdom , I was like Miles pull a Wilt Chamberlain and post 100 points and I got you.