The Love Doctor
Some things are just against the rules ...
The other day a friend of mine asked me what I thought about a situation that her friend was suffering through. For a few months her girlfriend has been secretly seeing her babies daddy's childhood friend. She met the childhood friend before the baby daddy but he moved away and in the interim she met fell in and out of love with her babies daddy . Now that he is back in town and she and her ex are no longer a couple and only share a child, she feels that it's perfectly ok to pursue the relationship with dude.
I listened to this with mouth open wide and dumbfounded. I mean there has to be something sacred in relationships and knocking your boys babies mamma's boots has to be one of them. I would question just how much a friend my friend was if he could do that to me and I would think that my babies mamma was using my boy as a weapon against me .
I know I bury my ex's in a graveyard but i hope that none of my friends decide to be archaeologist and dig up her bones and decide to play with them.
What do ya'll think about this one ?
6 Comments:
Typically, the sistahs rules state that you don't even mess with a man that your girlfriend likes and pursued a relationship. That man is off limits.
Going back to the previous post where when you break up you break up with everybody. I would keep with that rule as well.
There are all exceptions and that is if that man is my fantasy, then we will have to work something out. It will be "all of us" up in this miggy-figgy.
Ole' girl is nasty & ole' boy is just flat out wrong. I've dated guys who were "acquainted" with an ex or two of mine, but even when I found out they knew each other just in passing, I questioned whether or not I should keep seeing the guy...not gonna be comparing notes on what I do or well I do it!! She probably has her own personal agenda for doing what she's doing (ie. pissin off her ex, etc.), but to intentionally screw your ex's good friend...SHE NEEDS HER ASS WHUPPED. Then women wanna know why their called whores?! Runnin thru the crew is just eewwww!
And homeboy needs his friendship pass revoked. Its bad enough he's doin his boys ex, but his boys ex whos also his baby's mamma...WAY OUT OF BOUNDS!
WRONG! Just wrong. Let me tell ya I have had a close friend and relative go after and even take it to bed with a couple of my exes and Not only did I never talk to my exes again I stopped hanging out with the my cuz. The excuse given YOU DIDN'T WANT IT ANYMORE AND I DID! Please !!Only good thing is he burnt her ass. He got his piece and never looked back. I guess she will learn not to take my sloppy seconds.
Nothing ruins a relationship more than dating your exes friends or vice versa.
Once they are gone they did to stay gone.
NO EXCEPTIONS
See...this is why I'm always saying sometimes it's better to keep a SECRET.
Unless you are playing "pass the pussy" with your boy, don't even think about hitting anything he's been up in. That's the rule. If she's that fine, be man enough to clear it with your boy first. 9.9 times out of 10.0, he'll be like "Nigga, are you crazy".
"Pass the pussy?"
Is this a game you've played, Rich?
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