Cortney Gee
( aka THE LOVE DOCTOR )
The Sequel
Now of course I'm no body's psychiatrist but that doesn't stop my female friends from asking me things that make me pause ... then keep it real.
Case in point I have a girlfriend that lives with her dude whom pays all the bills takes care of their children and the two from her previous relationship and is by all other accounts a real cool dude. What she is complaining about is his messing around.
I paused as I always do before dropping a Geeism....
I was like look here ____ "we protect the innocent and the guilty on this blog!!!"
I'm not condoning your dude messing around but if he is paying all the bills and taking care of a kid that the two of you share and two that aren't biologically his .. damn can't the brother be excused for messing around a tad bit.
I didn't even know that they still made men that took care of all the bills no more.
I told her she had a good one based on that fact alone. Many men will pay half of or none of the bills and still sleep around on you . I had to remind my friend she wasn't Ivana Trump or Juanita Jordan and her departure wouldn't be a lottery ticket.
I told her to forgive him and torture him for his indiscretion's , sometimes there is more to gain by staying than leaving .
"STILL WATERS RUN DEEP"
Of course I don't expect my option to be agreed with on this one .. to be honest I don't write this to be agreed with. I write these lil pieces to get it out of my head ... so that i don't end up on a couch!
( aka THE LOVE DOCTOR )
The Sequel
Now of course I'm no body's psychiatrist but that doesn't stop my female friends from asking me things that make me pause ... then keep it real.
Case in point I have a girlfriend that lives with her dude whom pays all the bills takes care of their children and the two from her previous relationship and is by all other accounts a real cool dude. What she is complaining about is his messing around.
I paused as I always do before dropping a Geeism....
I was like look here ____ "we protect the innocent and the guilty on this blog!!!"
I'm not condoning your dude messing around but if he is paying all the bills and taking care of a kid that the two of you share and two that aren't biologically his .. damn can't the brother be excused for messing around a tad bit.
I didn't even know that they still made men that took care of all the bills no more.
I told her she had a good one based on that fact alone. Many men will pay half of or none of the bills and still sleep around on you . I had to remind my friend she wasn't Ivana Trump or Juanita Jordan and her departure wouldn't be a lottery ticket.
I told her to forgive him and torture him for his indiscretion's , sometimes there is more to gain by staying than leaving .
"STILL WATERS RUN DEEP"
Of course I don't expect my option to be agreed with on this one .. to be honest I don't write this to be agreed with. I write these lil pieces to get it out of my head ... so that i don't end up on a couch!
14 Comments:
Ok now I am not for the cheatin but I have an old man they has been with me almost 7 years and lets just say those 7 years my two boys have never wanted for anything and neither have I. Lets just my ex he can go to hell and sometimes I wish Mr Bin Laddin would take him there. Then I realize he is already in hell because another man is raising his kids and watching them grow. He is their dad. So maybe she can give a second chance if it is his first offense? She ain't gonna find it better anywhere else. They don't make them like they used to
Infidelity is given too much power. Instead of making a huge deal of her man's mistakes, she should count her blessings. Nobody is perfect!
sheeeeet....
lemme break it down to ya ladies.
if you give yo' man a "free fuck pass" for an "indiscretion"...due to the fact he's paying the bills and then some? he's gon wild out, cause "he" knows he's danglin' a money carrot ova yo head....trust me pussy is like lay's potato chips, "you just can't have one"
okay, okay...it's "eat" one, but i'm just saying. BUT!!!! if you want to have yo man home...flip da script on him, just the "image" of you fuckin' around on yo man will cause him to shift his gears and have dinner ready before the 6 o'clock news!
wow I didn't realize this post would generate such good replies just knew i was going to be bashed ... It's true when Lance said if you wnt your man to stay home make him think some one else is playing in his cookie jar ... oldest trick in the book . but it only works on men that pay attention or are concerned ...hmmm
"if you wnt your man to stay home make him think some one else is playing in his cookie jar ... oldest trick in the book . but it only works on men that pay attention or are concerned"
yeah, cort....ask michael jordan...lol sorry, mike...just for shits & giggles, BUT!
i'm fittin' to shine my shoes and head ova to 'nita's house! (;-P
not to get off the subject...
cort, what cigars do you smoke? did you get a chance to puff on any cubans with the troops overseas?
nuthin' like a cuban cigar...
Absolutely, Lance, you know how I am about my Cohiba's.
Anyway, whatever, I still say that people get too worked up about infidelity--especially in a man.
You are right, though, Lance, about one thing. I would forgive Dave any indiscretions, but he would NEVER, EVER forgive me.
I like ElRey Mundos and st loius reys
and yes puff up with the troops cubano style when i go overseas hell thats one of the reasons they get me to go over there ...
Girly it's true that women are socially condition to forgive us .. and we as men have no conditioning we are like give someone my coochie and its over ...
those are nice cigars you and g_g are puffin' on...the last time i puffed on a cuban was a romeo & julieta churchill in bermuda. time to hit another one...other than that, usually smoke punch, la gloria cubana, partagas black, r&j
if you two get around to it, purchase a la gloria cubana, serie "r", #6. about the closest i've tasted, puff and felt like a cuban. made in the d.r.
Lance...I know what you WANTED to say.... ;)
We'll talk later!
Okay I see you got 11 comments...well heres number 12 coming from a real female pimptress...Basically is all about respect first off...cause if she was to play around on him she would be looked at as a hoe....Most men claim to want to be the MAN...well damnit be the man allllll the way and pay all the damn bills and play around and let the female dip and dap a little as well....Jus both stay strapped and keep the shit away from the home front...BUT see this could only happen in a utopian kinda world because men cant cheat...they get stupid and careless and somehow the shit ends up at the homefront...so this is why she should check his ass!!! Or keep her mouth shut use his and and continue to come up then bounce on his ass!! Bigmama
I agree with Lance. you cant allow your man to continue to fuck around on you because he is taking care of the kids and paying all the bills. you can work, get a job and take care of your own dayum kids. if he will fuck around on you once he will do it over and over again. But if you want to stay in that situatiuon get a back bone and fuck around on him. if he knows that you will give it up and can still take care of the kids then he will bring his ass home and stay and if not, OH WELL, you've been fucked several ways on sunday.
Fuck dat - Give up my pussy, and I'm out, I don't care who I'm fuckin' on the side. Just the way it is.
Ladies, get over it. If he's paying all the bills and hitting a little on the side, be glad he didn't do a Sunshine on you and decide not to come home cause her pussy was better.
As stupid as this sounds, we hide the truth from the one we really love, the other woman knows about you, because it's just a fuck thang.
Hell, it's 11:1 odds out here, get over yourselves already. Besides, we have to keep your sista's coochie from drying up from non-use. We provide a public service.
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